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Sakhi Chauhan
Well educated, did a job and stood on her own feet. For this he went to other cities and started living alone. They also married by rebelling against friends and relatives, but in the last few days Shraddha, Ankita, Kiran Negi and many girls in Bollywood have become victims of murder and suicide. The rapidly changing society and families are also getting scared seeing such incidents. It seems that somewhere some big mistake is being made and the one who can correct this mistake the most are the girls themselves and their families.
As for the mistakes, then it belongs to the whole society. It is of family rituals. There is age-old masculinity in the society and young women who are in a hurry to eliminate this latter and fail to create the right harmony. Wisdom and freedom have to go hand in hand. Let us take the case of Shraddha as an example. The story that has come out so far is yet to be proved in the court. Nevertheless, if Aftab’s statement is to be accepted as true, then this entire matter can be taken as a case study. In the kind of changes that have come in the Indian society, girls have been given more freedom than before, but still the doors are not opening easily for the girls coming back home after breaking the relationship like marriage or live-in. Just because of the fear of what people or society will say, parents do not open the doors of return for their daughters with the same love with which they brought up the child.
In such a situation, the girl is in that relationship who has to face insults or abuses, rors and kick punches on the day she comes. The case of Shraddha is a bit different in this respect. In this case, the parents of the victim themselves lived separately from each other. Mother also refused to have a relationship with Aftab. He tried to stop the relationship by talking to her father as well but Shraddha was not ready to come back even after being beaten up. In many other cases, a girl who has gone to work or marriage after rebelling from home, also continues to suffer the harassment of her husband or partner because she knows that the house and the society will not welcome her return. This situation has to change. Families have to give protection to their daughters. We have to fight for his interests. The atmosphere will change and if even the family members do not change, then the girl will have to bring enough strength in herself to be ready for another rebellion as well. That is, once she has come out fighting with the family members for her decision. Now if he is not happy even in the new relationship and he is being tortured, he will have to rebel again. After all, when a girl can leave the house for a lover, then why not a lover, husband or live-in partner when there is no love. One mistake can be tolerated, two can be made but the third mistake should not be given a chance. When the girl came out breaking all the bonds for love, then how can she get beaten up. A strong reply should be given to the first slap itself. If not possible by hand and foot, then by law. For this, it is necessary for every sensible girl to always take care of her financial strength and make herself capable. Most of the women of the older generation ignored the violence of men because they did not have any means to live alone and the family members were afraid of the society. Today’s girls should first focus on their skill development and becoming financially capable through studies. Once employment is guaranteed, then she can freely take her decisions and can give strong jawans for every attack. He will have to convert his sentimentality into practicality, otherwise don’t know when his partner will be Aftab or Sushil Sharma, what is the guarantee of this. Such people should be identified from the very first slap. Otherwise, it is now your compulsion to think that there are such people in the world who can kill someone, cut his dead body and stuff it in the fridge, then bring another girl home and pretend to be in love with her too. I am sure that parents may be afraid of the society, but they can never imagine such a bad fate of yours. First your decision proved wrong. Still, in such a quarrel, in a situation of doubt and in case of compulsion, keep hope that your parents will always be with you. Parents are also advised that never be so angry with the children that they start thinking that the way to reach you is closed. In the time of such tragedies happening with the girls.
